The strength you do not see first
- Okvidinn Skriif Eitthvad
- 1 day ago
- 3 min read

There is a particular kind of strength we rarely celebrate.
It does not announce itself loudly.
It does not arrive polished or perfectly timed.
Often, it shows up tired, half-packed, and uncertain, but it shows up anyway.
This week, that strength had a name.
Australian basketballer Jock Landale was traded not once, but twice in the space of a day. A blur of logistics, uncertainty and emotional whiplash that most of us would struggle to process, let alone perform through. He then drove hundreds of kilometres overnight to arrive at his new team, the Atlanta Hawks, just in time to play.
And then, almost quietly, he delivered a career night.
Twenty-six points.
Eleven rebounds.
Five assists.
Four blocks.
Numbers that make headlines, but they are not the story. The story lives underneath them.
The work no one applauds
What we saw on the court was not spontaneity. It was accumulation.
Years of being overlooked.
Of being traded, benched, doubted, reshuffled.
Of learning systems that were not built with you in mind. Of staying ready when readiness is invisible.
This is the force we rarely name, the one that lives beneath momentum. The strength that does not demand certainty before it moves. La force invisible.
It is the decision to keep training when you are not sure who you will play for next.
The discipline to learn your role even when the role keeps changing.
The humility to contribute without being centred.
In a culture obsessed with overnight success, this kind of resilience can look unremarkable.
Until suddenly, it isn’t.
Showing up without guarantees
What struck me most about this moment was not the stat line, but the timing.
Landale did not step into a stable environment.
He stepped into flux.
New city.
New systems.
New expectations.
No settling-in period.
And yet, he trusted the work he had already done.
There is something profoundly human about that.
Most of us do not get to wait until life feels certain. We show up tired. We show up carrying old decisions. We show up mid-transition.
We rarely arrive at the moment when everything makes sense. But sometimes, presence is enough.
When the invisible becomes visible
There is a myth that confidence comes first and action follows. Often, it is the reverse.
We act.
We commit.
We move forward imperfectly.
And only later do we recognise the strength that carried us there. That is what made this moment resonate far beyond sport.
It was not about proving anything.
It was about being ready when the invitation finally arrived, even if the invitation came late, messy and without ceremony.
Sometimes recognition does not come when we expect it. Sometimes it arrives when we are already exhausted.
And sometimes, it arrives simply because we did not stop.
Carrying this forward
You do not need to be an athlete to recognise this pattern.
It lives in career pivots.
In parenting seasons.
In grief.
In rebuilding after loss.
In choosing to remain open when it would be easier to withdraw.
There is strength in the quiet middle, the part no one sees. And when it finally surfaces, it often looks effortless to others. It never is.
So if you are in a season where your effort feels unseen, remember this:
Invisible work still counts.
Readiness is never wasted.
And sometimes, the moment arrives not when you feel prepared, but because you stayed.
That is the force beneath the surface.
And it has been carrying you all along.

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